今天，終於又和淑梅見面，我請她看電影。她已經康復了，我很開心！ 我們看了古天樂主演的＜一個好爸爸＞。 

Interestingly, I thought it was a comedy (well, it is, there were plenty of scenes that made me laugh, even as I am feeling so Sad these days). It is more than a comedy. I cried, a few times throughout the movie, because it touches my heart and soul. Louis Khoo's acting is so good that I can't think of another actor to replace him in this show. In Summary, he is a gangster in the film, but ever since a one-night stand with Renee Lau, which led him to eventually marry her (against his wishes), because she is pregnant (but he really loves her too). And as the story unfolds, more depth into his soul and heart is being revealed to us as he tries to be a good father simply because she has touched him to change his lifestyle for her happiness. He does not want his daughter, Xi-er (Happiness) to know he is a gangster and thrives as a gang leader in the Dark side of society, and with the growing love for her, he compels to change himself, to the extent of giving up his illegal business to run a Tuition Centre (well, basically, it is very hard for him to quit his dark activities and he began to lead a double life, pretending to be a legal business man yet running underground businesses....).

I love the part when he went to the Tatoo shop to overwrite the Tiger tatoo on his chest that his 5 year old daughter cries upon looking at it one day at a beach outing. It shows how much love can change someone..... And another touching part is he gave up his own relationship with 'GUAN GONG' (well, all Secret societies worship GUAN YU- LOYALTY), to become a Catholic just so that his daughter and wife are happy. It was a funny yet warm scene. I like the way Director Sylvia Chang directed and incorporated different life meanings into this seemingly meaningless atypical movie at first sight. In greater depth, this is a great movie, displaying the meaning of life across various angles. Secret societies; always featured in Hong Kong movies, but this one helped me understand and in fact admire the kind of loyalty secret societies members have for one another. The perseverence and strong-willedness of each member inspired me greatly actually...... Faith;

Sylvia Chang Ai Chia is one of the few whom always dare to make an open statement on God in her movies. Really, prayers really can change someone's life, and this is what she wishes to 'preach' in this movie and of course, the ultimate theme of LOVE CHANGES EVERYTHING.

Thank God, for today, for a special friend like Shumei. She is a very very forgotten soul in this world; it takes a lot to be her friend, but it takes very little to make her happy. A treat of hotdog and ice tea and a cute purse from Precious Moments made her day; I feel so happy today because I know that I have touched her life today. I will never forget how I told God I will love her for as long as I live, simply because I shed tears for her before, being helpless to change her, help her move on to a normal life.....until one day, it dawn upon me that she is the way she is, she has a mental hiccup, and she just needs love, plain love. And God has put me in her life NOT to heal her, but to LOVE her, simple, pure love...... So, I thank her for giving me a chance to love her. She will never love me back the way I hope she can, being a soul-mate or a friend who can relate or listen to me, but I will love her for who she is.... because she loved me for who I am.

I miss HER, again, after watching this movie......I will keep walking forward and continue to convert my sad feelings towards her, him into beautiful strengths to touch others.

Thank you; you are one of my best friends in this life:)

You're always in my prayers...